Infidelity
Polygraph testing
can be beneficial for infidelity cases due to its ability to provide an
objective assessment of truthfulness. In emotionally charged situations like infidelity
investigations, where trust may be compromised and communication may be
strained, a polygraph exam offers a structured and scientific approach to
uncovering the truth.
Facilitates
Communication: Infidelity cases often involve difficult conversations where
emotions can cloud judgment. A polygraph test provides a neutral platform for
discussing sensitive issues, allowing both parties to express themselves
without fear of bias or manipulation.
Encourages
Transparency:
The prospect of undergoing a polygraph test can motivate individuals to be more
forthcoming about their actions and intentions. Knowing that they will be held
accountable for their responses can encourage honesty and discourage deception.
Clarifies
Conflicting Accounts: In cases where conflicting accounts of events exist, a
polygraph test can help resolve discrepancies by providing an impartial
assessment of each party's version of the truth. This can lead to a clearer
understanding of what actually transpired.
Restore Trust: For couples
grappling with suspicions of infidelity, undergoing a polygraph test can serve
as a step towards rebuilding trust. The willingness to undergo testing
demonstrates a commitment to transparency and honesty, which can be reassuring
for the aggrieved party.
Many clients of
mine choose to participate in routine polygraph testing. This
could be once a year, once a month, or as desired by the partner. What this
does is aid in building back trust in the relationship after the examinee continuously
passes their polygraph examinations.
Provides Closure: Uncertainty and
doubt can prolong the emotional distress associated with infidelity. Polygraph
testing offers a means of obtaining closure by providing definitive answers to
lingering questions, allowing both parties to move forward with clarity and resolution.
Strengths Legal
Cases:
In situations where infidelity has legal implications, such as divorce
proceedings or child custody battles, polygraph test results can serve as
valuable *evidence to support claims or refute allegations. This can be
particularly relevant in jurisdictions where polygraph evidence is admissible
in court.
Encourages
Accountability: By subjecting themselves to polygraph testing, individuals
involved in infidelity cases demonstrate a willingness to be held accountable
for their actions. This can foster a sense of responsibility and encourage
constructive dialogue about repairing the relationship or addressing underlying
issues.
While polygraph
testing is not without limitations and should be approached with caution,
particularly in matters as sensitive as infidelity, it can offer a structured
and objective means of addressing suspicions and obtaining closure in difficult
situations. Ultimately, the decision to undergo polygraph testing should be
made thoughtfully and with careful consideration of its potential benefits and
drawbacks. It is also encouraged that
couples who decide to undergo polygraph testing, whether routinely or just
once, should be working in conjunction with a relationship therapist to better
discuss the complex emotional concerns in the relationship.